你体谅过不在你身边的女朋友嗎？

从来不喜欢看长篇文章，可是又爱看小说和散文的我，在面子书上看到很多人分享这篇文章，心血来潮的按进去看看。
讲中了女孩们 我的心声~

你体谅过不在你身边的女朋友吗？

她没有安全感。因为距离远，她希望你有时间就能陪她在网上聊天、打电话，

让她感觉到你的存在和真实感。因为这是你们唯一能做的。

也许你觉得她这样很任性，但请你体谅她，她是女人。

她需要关怀和疼爱。能多陪陪她就多陪陪她。

能多给她点安全感就多给她点安全感。让她感觉到，

就算你们人不在一起，但是心在一起。

她会每天熬到很晚，为的只是能和你多说几句话。

她会每次聊天的时候都提醒你多吃饭，她说这些的时候心里很难过，难过自己不能面对面的嘱咐你。

所以，请别嫌她烦，别嫌她唠叨，请你体谅她，她是女人。

告诉她，你会照顾自己，叫她放心。

她是女人、她敏感。

她是女人、她爱吃醋。

她是女人、她爱耍小脾气。

她是女人、她爱听甜言蜜语。

她会在自己独处的时候瞎想，脑子里都是那些不该出现的画面，像电影一样，闪来闪去。

她会没有原因的哭和难过，因为她怕距离远了，时间长了，感情会变淡变没。

她会一个人抱着腿坐在床上，默默的看着一个地方，猜想你现在在干什么。

她看到你的校内或者空间上有女性的留言的时候，会很酸的问你：“这谁呀？”

她会时常怀疑你有别的女人，她会在和你聊天的时候，盼着你说点甜言蜜语哄她开心，听到之后会一个人笑的比阳光还灿烂。

所以，请你体谅她，她是女人。

包容她的小脾气，尽量和不该走得近的女人保持距离。

时不时的说句：“宝贝、我想你”“亲爱的、么么”来哄哄她。

她看到一切美好的东西，都会想到你。

她逛街的时候不会给自己买东西，但却会给你买东西。

她想到一些好玩的事情会想要和你分享。

她会记住你们在一起的纪念日。她会计划好一切，回去见到你要做的事情和要去的地方。

她会告诉你她爱你，然后自己脸红。

她会默默告诉自己，要一辈子和你在一起。

所以，请你体谅她，因爲她是女人。

一个人

发抖，

全身都在发抖...

一个人在房间，

原来真的那么恐怖...

要怎么熬到晚上？

怎么熬到明天？

考试要怎么读？

想念...

怀念...

心痛...

难过...

回忆不停地在脑海里翻滚...

你是否也是这样？？

因该没有吧...

该怎么办...

不敢相信一切真地结束了

又回到当初的那个感觉

心痛...

心碎...

空虚...

孤单...

突然间好像什么都是灰色的...

一天的强颜欢笑...

一个晚上的伪装...

真得好累...

朋友，谢谢你们陪在我身边，

对不起，我真的没办法对着你们哭...

怎么办？？？

一直在问我自己..

以后要怎么办？？？

我不知道...

别说以后，先今天晚上该怎么熬，

我也不知道...

新学期

好久没有update 了...

假期过得很充实，开学了两个星期...

第一个星期过得还不错...

加入了新的一组，融入得很好，很开心...

第二个星期就没想像中的好...

有一天收到妈妈发来的简讯，得知一位小学的同学在新加坡选择了放弃生命....

他离开了，才20岁，真的很难相信...

这位同学虽然小学毕业后就没有联络了，但毕竟以前我们的关系还不错...

收到了这惊人的消息后，心里难免有些伤心...

也外加了一份可惜...

朋友，安息吧，一路好走...

我捱过了，坚强了！！！

考试期间，就是压力最大的时候...

常因为一些小事情而想不开..

那一天，

读书读到累了，怎么也读不进去，

拨了个电话给妈妈，

听到了妈妈的声音，却开不了口告诉她我很压力，

只是告诉她我读不进脑，很害怕...

盖了电话，

终于崩溃了...

世界上还是妈妈最了解我，

虽然没说出口，但她还是感觉到，

发了信息给我，

当中的一句就让我感动得要死

[ 孩子，没办法读就别给自己太大压力，考不好不是世界末日，累了就去睡吧，明天睁开眼睛，太阳还是会一样的升起来...爸爸妈妈都支持你的]

心里面内疚得很，

内疚自己没好好照顾自己，让他们担心了...

就这样，

捱过了一个晚上，

第二天早上，另一封信息来了，

[ 孩子，别给自己太大压力，会做就做，不会做就乱乱做，天塌下来就当被盖，爸妈给你打气！！！]

好经典的一句话，

很难想象那是出于一位老师所说的话，

但我知道，那是父母亲用来鼓励孩子的一句珍贵的话...

爸爸妈妈，谢谢你们

让我有勇气继续坚持下去

我捱过了

坚强了

也谢谢支持我的朋友

还有宝贝

借了一个晚上的时间和肩膀让我靠

^生活中的一点小激励^

有个小孩跑到山上对着大山喊了一声：“喂！”

谁知，大山回应了：“喂！”

小孩高兴得又惊讶的又问：“你是谁？”

大山有又应：“你是谁？”

小孩又喊：“为什么不告诉我？”

大山还是回应了：“为什么不告诉我？”

得到这样的回应，这下把小孩给气坏了，小孩忍不住用进了全力喊道：“我很你！”

他这一喊可不得了啊！！！

整个世界传来的都是：“我很你...我很你...”

小孩伤心地哭着回家找妈妈...

妈妈了解情况后，让小孩到山里再对着大山喊“我爱你”, 试试看结果会怎样...

小孩听了妈妈的话，跑到山上。

果然这次小孩被包围着“我---爱---你” 的回声中。

小孩笑了，大山也笑了...

其实在生活中，我们总爱抱怨着别人的错误, 冷漠和态度， 却不知道其实自己就像对方的镜子-- 反射了和自己一模一样的态度。

想让别人爱你，就得先要爱别人；

想让别人对你好，就得先学习如何善待人。

@.@

@.@
天啊...

assignment 交完了，presentation 也完了...
却大病一场后，元气大伤...
到现在还是没什么精神，没什么力气...
连胃口都大大减少了...

终于又回到了我温暖的家...
好开心，安全感又回来了...
因为生病的那几天，心里真的只想着家，一直只想回家...
想到以前生病了，妈妈一定在身边...
这次不一样，一个人在外，生病了真的只能靠自己和朋友...
朋友当然不想家人能够长在旁照顾...

还好，
少了妈妈的怀抱，幸亏还有宝贝的拥抱...
多亏宝贝的照顾，和天天提醒我吃药...
病才很快好起来...

谢谢宝贝...:)

Another Week ^.^

A week with

Guilt...because i nearly made my whole group hand in an assignment with lots of mistakes.

Laughter... because i enjoy going to class( don't know why...haha).

Worry...because i did badly for my midterms(until now still worrying).

Missing...two weeks did not got home, miss mummy and daddy very much...T.T...

Of course also a busy week full of Assignments!!!

wish that can finish all the assignments soon!!!

getting late already...good night.

~~~。。。~~~

星期四，第一次身边一个这么要好的朋友发生事情...

那天听到他出车祸了， 整个人心里都揪了起来，开始担心，开始乱想，没办法安心下来...

电话传来的信息，一封比一封恐怖...

心里越来越紧张了...

晚上九点多，当babe 回来时告诉我一切，

心里觉得心疼，也担心...

第二天，才收到消息说他没有生命危险，也没骨折...

心里才踏实一些...

星期五，会怡保了...

也把他的女朋友一起载回去看他...

可怜的小情侣，终于可见到面了...

真为他们开心...

这次的事情，真的让我很害怕，害怕身边的人再发生这种事...

朋友，希望你赶快好起来....

健健康康的...

遗忘~~

又是一个被遗忘的晚上...

过一秒， 算一秒的日子...

超难过的...

讨厌这总感觉...

被遗忘的心情，

你懂吗？？？

能够感受得到吗？？？

你就是永远都不会明白...

爱 很简单

爱 很简单

爱你就是

那么单纯

那么快乐

就是那么简单

360...

520...

A normal but happy day ~~

Have a nice day with my dar and my friends...

Back from Kampar at about 6pm...

Because it rain heavily in the evening, so I have to wait for the rain to stop.

We went to A station while waiting the rain to stop....

Reached Ipoh at about 7pm...

Went for dinner in 'My Point'...

I love the food there very much...

Mushroom soup as the appetizer

Lamb soup for dear

My Terriyaki Lamb....yummy!!!

Playing with my desert....

Have a nice day....good night!!!

加油

走进了一场噩梦...

困在梦里，没办法出来...

加油...

对！！！

我得加油...

努力的让自己从梦中走出来...

或者...

尝试把噩梦变成美梦！！！

叶可欣

加油，加油！！！

Gambateh~~

Already one week after we started our new semester.

But I am still in holiday mood.

I just could not concentrate in the lectures and tutorials...

not even one class I can stay awake until the end.

Oh god, how am I going to bring myself back to the study mood...

Week 2 is coming, gambateh!!!!

It will be a very busy week as me and my team need to prepare for the publicity week for the upcoming CWW.

Hope I can handle everything well...

Babymushie, u can do it!!!

新学期，加油~~

最后一天的假期，那么快就要开学了...

有一点觉得假期不够...还没有玩够...

无论如何，还是得回到现实...

明天还是得乖乖的去上课...

希望新的学期一切会更好...

加油！！！

Blue Black ~~ T.T

Is already one week since I did my blood test.

I even got back the report already, but the blue black on my hand is still there.

It become darker. And worse was it starts to pain.

Hope that it will be fine soon.

haha...it is all my fault to make a blue black on my hand.

If i did not shake my hand during the Dr. poke the needle on my hand then it wont be like that.

It teach me a lesson that I should be completely relax during injection, or else it will be a large piece of blue black on the hand. haha...

This is the consequence of shaking during needle poking...T.T

小鼠们搬新家咯....!!!!

两个小家伙终于搬新家了...

还花了我和J 先生两个小时的时间， 才把他们的小笼子给盖好...

他们真幸福！！！

新笼子不但比旧的漂亮，而且还多了新玩意儿...

刚开始，两个小家伙似乎还没有适应新的地方，所以都呆在一个地方没动...

大概过了一个小时，他们才开始到处钻来钻去..

‘小胖妹 a.k.a 肥嘟嘟’ 开始跑动着她的小轮子，而‘仔仔’ 也开始往小通道里钻...

两个小家伙玩得不亦乐乎，有的时候还互相 ‘打起架’ 来...

新笼子= 新家

这两个小东西，真的是大家的开心果，常常把我和J 先生都得笑个不停，不只是这样，连我们的家里人都很喜欢他们...

两个小可爱，希望你们喜欢你们的新家，最终要你们别在合不来了...哈哈！！！

以下是两个小可爱的一些可爱照片，能让大家轻松一下...

小胖妹 a.k.a 肥嘟嘟

最爱跑轮子

仔仔

小小只，真可爱...

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这是今天故事的下半截，整个下午我和J先生去看戏了...

看了一套刚上映的恐怖片叫' The Nightmare On Elm Street'...

吓得我几乎整场戏都是盖着眼睛的...

但我觉得这是一套值得推荐给大家看得戏，内容新鲜，很不错！！！

Anniversary Trip ~~

Was away for fours day....

Went to KL with Mr.J....

Went for shopping, walked until my legs pain...

Starts to admire those people who can walk and shop for the whole day in the shopping mall...

Oh my God, I cant do that, my legs will definitely pain until I cant walk...

Just went back around 4.30pm this evening..

Still tired...

I think I will not use words to describe what I have done for the past few days...

Just let some pictures and descriptions to tell the stories...

The journey started at 21/05/2010

We were discussing what KTM actually stands for...We came out with all kinds of weird combinations of words like 'Komuter Transit Malaysia', 'Komuter Transit Melayu'...

At last we found out that it is actually 'Keretapi Tanah Melayu'...funny...

On the train to KL

Mc D for dinner in Sg. Wang

Second day- 22/05/2010

Went out for a movie(Iron Man ll) with my cousins in the morning in 1Utama...(Did not take any photoes for that).

In the evening met up with Mr. J. His sister treated us for the dinner in a chinese restaurant inside the 1 Utama building. After dinner, we went shopping again...haha...

Shopping in 1utama

Apple + Orange+ Carrot juice...nice but cost us RM10!!!

A Gift from Mr. J's sister

Thrid day- 23/05/2010

This is the day where I walked until my legs nearly broke...

Entrance of Sunway Pyramid

Lunch in Mr. Tepanyaki

Dear bought his new converse shoes...(his shoes is so clean and new compare to mine..T.T)

Went for ice skating...

It was fun...enjoyed it very much although I dont really know how to skate...

We went back to 1 Utama to have our dinner after we suffered for a tough and tiring journey from Sunway back to 1 Utama because we missed the bus that back to kelana jaya straight away..so we need to take another bus to KL sentral and change bus back to damansara...

We were starving like hell at that moment...

Dinner at Carl's Jr

Went for a walked in 1 Utama again after dinner as dear said he wanted to buy his shirt.

Dear bought me a bracelet at Perlini's Silver...love it...thanks...

Last day- 24/05/2010

Say bye bye to KL...

Took 1pm train back to Ipoh...

It was a happy and memorable trip as it is the first time we celebrate our anniversary in such a special way...Thanks to Mr J for planning everything, for the gift, and for giving me such a good memories. Love you...my dear...I wish u enjoyed the trip too...

胆小的我~~

一大清早随阿姨到诊所去验血，还做了一件糗得不得了事...

从来都没有想过自己会那么的害怕打针，当针筒插入我的手时，我顿时紧张了起来，然后整只手在抖个不停...糗死了！！！真胆小，打针都怕！！！

希望报告出来后结果不会令我失望...Good Luck...

手还在痛...

Aerosmith - I Don't Wanna Miss a Thing

I Don't Wanna Miss A Thing - Aerosmith

I could stay awake just to hear you breathing
Watch you smile while you are sleeping
Far away and dreaming
I could spend my life in this sweet surrender
I could stay lost in this moment forever
Well, every moment spent with you
Is a moment I treasure

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

Lying close to you
Feeling your heart beating
And I'm wondering what you're dreaming
Wondering if it's me you're seeing
Then I kiss your eyes and thank God we're together
And I just wanna stay with you
In this moment forever, forever and ever

I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep
'Cause I'd miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
'Cause even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
I'd still miss you, babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing

I don't wanna miss one smile
I don't wanna miss one kiss
Well, I just wanna be with you
Right here with you, just like this
I just wanna hold you close
Feel your heart so close to mine
And stay here in this moment
For all the rest of time

Family~~

Finally I finished planning my plan to KL, where to stay, where to eat, where to shop, and where to play...wohooo....I am definitely going to enjoy and relax myself there.

Besides going with my dear, I planned to meet my cousins there too. I am going to meet my sweet little cousin sisters who is the closest to me, my twins brothers and two other cousin brothers. We were chatting on the msn about this big plan. My cousin sister planned to have movie and go for bowling in 1 utama. I am damn excited for that,cant wait to see them.

Since we started our secondary school, we seldom meet up and chat with each other. Due to far distance, we only have the chance to meet each other during some special occasion such as Chinese New Year, 'Ching Bing' or wedding ceremony. We were once very close to each other that we squeezes together in a small room throughout the night and chit chat for the whole night. I miss those days when we were still young, at least we can meet each other at least twice a year not like now(most is twice a year).

But one thing that I feel glad is I heard that you all are actually feeling the same way I feel. You all also feel that we should meet up more often. Although we meet each other lesser and lesser, we know deep in our heart that our relationship never change at all as we are still very close to each other. Just like everytime you all came during Chinese New Year, I enjoy to see all the smiling face where our parents where chatting so happily in the living room, and we gathered at the back and have our own 'meeting' also.

To me, Our large and harmony family is a gift to me. We are such a big family but we can still be that close to each other, that is what i am glad for. I appreciate it very much. Love you all so much...looking forward to see you all soon.

There are still few of them were not in the photo. I cant find the family photo in my laptop.

Happy 2nd Anniversary(Special for my dear)

17/5/2008

两年了，

没错，今天也是我们在一起的两周年...

我们在一起两年了...

这两年以来，交集了许多的酸甜苦辣，我们都经历过了...

有喜有泪，有开心与不开心，我们都能对彼此妥协，然彼此开心...

我看见你对我的用心，真的...

谢谢你对我的心还是像以前一样，

谢谢你对我的任性包容，

谢谢你对我一直的呵护，爱护，

谢谢你接受我的有点，忘了我的缺点，

谢谢你珍惜我的付出，原谅我的过错，

谢谢你给我的一切一切。

对不起，我常常都是那么任性，最不应该的就是对你发脾气...

我会尝试去改进...

Dear Babyzhu, Happy 2nd Anniversary. I love you. Hope you like the anniversary gift from me.

Love~

Love can be fragile if both person do not know how to run the relationship in a correct manner. Even a small matter can cause serious consequence. Love is not only serve as one way. It must be both person giving and taking, but not merely a person giving but the other just receiving . Even though one of them willing to give and one receiving, one day they will be problem come out between both of them.

I was once very weak in facing all these love relationship stuff and at last I end up hurting myself badly. After I stand up from the fall, I thought i could get tougher to face all these love problems that comes towards me. I do get tougher but still there are something that i cant solve by my own. He is a nice guy. Always treating me as his princess, but nobody is perfect. He owns something that other guys do not have but he also have the habits that other guys have. Same as other guys, he love dota, love to play.... But all these become the problem between us. He loves to play dota until he do not care about anything including his studies and this is what made me angry with him about.

Maybe all these things happen because I am not good in tolerating, and I truely cannot accept what he is doing.

Dear Mr. J, I just wish to see u at least try ur best to work for it. Nobody will blame you if you have tried your best. You can play your dota also if you can manage your time well. Nobody dont allow you to play, but at least you have to control yourself before u learn to control the characters in your games. Why not we just learn together, we both have our weaknesses, I have to learn to tolerate and how to deal with others, but you have to learn to manage your time well and work hard for ur studies.

Not that I dont love u anymore, just that what you did really made me feel that I am totally useless and use up all my ideas to help you already. Somehow I feel very disappointed. So can we work together?? Deal??

Thanks to all my friends that support me...I am very happy you all were concern about me when you know something had happen to me. Thanks...I love u all...

平凡中作乐

虽然今天一大早起床还是觉得无所事事，但如果人是乐观的，做什么都会快乐，平平凡凡的，也可以让自己快乐。今天就做了两件平凡但又很快乐的事。

下午跟 J先生到火车站去买火车票，排队排了大概半个小时才买到票...去吉隆坡玩的计划终于可以落实了，好开心，好期待哦！！！哈哈！！！我可以去shopping 了（哈哈，购物狂上身）。J 先生送我回家后，在家里逗留了一下，帮我找出开不到maple story 的原因，结果失败了，他也只好放弃回家了。

晚上，阿姨们和表姐打算帮妈妈庆祝生日，所以大家都到外头吃晚餐。晚餐后到阿姨家帮妈妈庆生和切蛋糕。虽然不是在她生日的正日庆祝，但看得出来她很开心。妈妈，再一次祝你生日快乐，爱你哦！！！希望你每天都身体健康，开开心心....

pandan cake(妈妈的至爱）

永远都那么可爱年轻的妈妈

Boring but Fun Day

Nothing special for today. Is just another boring day but I managed to get myself some fun at last. Woke up at 10am. After having my breakfast, started to sit in front of my laptop and facebook. I found out that I like losing interest towards facebook games already. Other than playing facebook, I was also editing some photoes. Since the semester break started I keep editing my photoes, until today I have already edited up to about 10 photoes and above. Editing using conew and photoscape is fun. I can make different styles and designs on my photoes. Besides, I have added in the designs of a new application named 'mei tu xiu xiu'. I have more choices on editing my photoes. I really feels that these editing application are amazing. Here are some photoes that I edited for the past few days. Do leave some comments on them...thanks.

me and him

a photo of me and my lovely little cousin sister

and lastly, my own photo(narcissism)...haha